1.  Be calm

2.  Babies are much sturdier than they appear.  Logically I already knew this from experiences with other babies, emotionally I felt like everything I did was going to cause lasting harm… somehow.

3.  Be calm and patient

4.  Tiredness becomes a way of life.  When someone volunteers to help out with your new addition, take them up on it.  This allows you to breath, take a shower, and a nap all in one day.  I emphasis the shower and nap part.

5. Be calm, patient, and flexible

6.  Lean on your husband.  He can be a sturdy rock when the tidal wave of emotions hits you over and over again.  Yes, you can use them to cry on.  They really won’t think that you’re weak or losing your mind.

7.  Be calm, patient, flexible, and accept advice with grace

8.  Sitz baths…..so good.  If you do not know what this is, well ask your health care provider.  If you’ve done one before, you know of what I speak.

9.  Be calm, patient, flexible, accept advice with grace, and cherish your child

10. I know you are expecting a list of 10 items, but I’m tired now.

- Sandra